Ten golden rules for the perfect loveletter

Ten golden rules, an irresistable loveletter.
A loveletter is the perfect way to tell someone how you feel.
A special loveletter that is written by yourself is a very special gift to a person.
It doesn't have to be that hard to write a loveletter, as long as it is sincere, honnest and coming straight from your heart.

There are a couple of things that you have to keep in mind when writing a loveletter

You're not writing a business partner
So do not end your letter with "Kind Regards" or start with an impersonal heading.

Wrap the message that you want to bring up a little
Do not write too directly. Try to translate what you feel in images and feelings.
Not: I miss you.
But: My room is empty without you. Or : I miss you in the morning, at noon and in the evening. I miss you more than I can say.

Focus on your lover with your words
You should not be aiming at yourself, but have your lover as the subject. Don't pray yourself, but pray your lover, the one that is going to receive the letter.
Not: You are happy to have found me
But: I'm happy that I have met you and that I get the chance to know you better....

From the heart
What you write should come straight from your heart and has to be as personal as possible. If you only started a relation, this may be not that easy because you know little about eachother. It is therefore that you have to try to use that "little" as broad as possible. The person that receives your letter should get the feeling that he or she is unique and that the letter is really written for him or her only.

Over-acting is allowed
Although you should not overdo it, charging your words is part of falling or being in love. For example, say "My love for you is like snow on the top of a mountain ..... it's always there".

Don't be bald or vulgar
Avoid unsavoury words as you may scare your lover away with them.

Compliment your lover
Either pay true compliments, or else exaggerate so much that it becomes funny. Paying one a compliment has nothing to do with lying or trying to get in favour. When you're in love, you see everything through pink glasses. Do pay compliments that contain a certain instance of thruthfullness. Writing a well-covered woman that she's light as a feather may sound abusive.

Make funny jokes
Put some funny remarks in your letter or write with a taste of humour. A loveletter may be somewhat oppressing, better use some humour to lighten it up.

The looks of your letter
Pay enough attention to the 'looks' of your letter. It should be classy and stylish. It basically is what you are. Especially if you are writing a handwritten letter, make sure there are no stains on the paper, and better, first write it in draft. If you're writing an e-mail, send it to yourself first to make sure it looks as intended.

Above all ... only write sincere, honnest and straight from your heart.