Avoid a Rough Valentine's Day
By: Doctor Romance
Published: 15 January 2008
"What did you do for Valentine's Day, Sandy", asked
Heidi.
"Oh, nothing much," sighed Sandy. "Dave brought
home some flowers and take-out and we watched some movies
at home."
"Well, that sounds like fun I guess," said Heidi.
"At least he remembered to recognize Valentines Day.
My husband forgot and at the last minute ran to the store
and bought a box of heart shaped candy."
"Still, that's kind of thoughtful," Sandy surmised.
"Who doesn't like chocolate?"
"People who are allergic to chocolate!" exclaimed
Heidi.
A lot of people out there view Valentine's Day simply as
a made-up occasion sponsored by the greeting card companies.
Regardless, it is one day where your special someone would
like to be recognized as being someone that you really care
about. If you ignore the "holiday," you are going
to have a problem.
Buying the right gift is the big dilemma. Much like a birthday
or anniversary, you want to provide something that has meaning.
It doesn't have to cost a lot of money -- in fact, some of
the best gifts out there are available for under $100.
The big mistake that you can make is just randomly selecting
something that someone else deems a "romantic gift."
An elegant piece of gold jewelry is romantic - unless the
receiver of the gift doesn't wear any gold and prefers silver.
A weekend away at a ski lodge is romantic - unless the recipient
despises the cold and prefers warmer surroundings.
The key is to listen. Are there any gift items that they
have mentioned? Are there any activities that they have wanted
to do with you? Have they used the phrase "I wish you
were more romantic?" Has your special someone ever mentioned
something romantic that one of your friends did for their
spouse?
For me, I really enjoy it when my wife gives me a thoughtful
gift that comes with a card that expresses her feelings. All
of us have busy lives and very few of us take the time to
tell our significant other how we feel about them. This applies
to men and women alike. Even the most macho guy wants to know
that he is important in the eyes of his lover.
This year, take the time to find just the right gift. Investing
in a thoughtful, creative and romantic gift will be remembered
forever.
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