Do You Think You Will Never Meet Anyone?

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By Susan Russo

You will be amazed to know that your ex isn’t the only person on the planet. Before you know it there will be someone new in your life; you just have to give yourself some time.

"A mind troubled by doubt cannot focus on the course to victory."
-Arthur Golden

How many times have you said, "I'll never meet anyone that I love like him/her? She's/he's my soul mate; It's too hard to meet good people; I hate the bar scene; I'll never meet anyone unless they knock on my door." And the list goes on.

Because your heart is so wrapped up in whatever their name is; you can't see that there's a future out there waiting for you. You are so focused on looking through your rear-view mirror that you can't see where you are going.

Sure you miss them. They were the latest and the greatest. But, think back to the time in your life that you thought you would never get over the last guy/girl and lo and behold; you met someone new.

You're right about one thing; you will never meet anyone as long as you hold onto the belief that you won't.

We attract what we think about all day. If the only thing on your mind is how bad you feel, how you loved what you had and how you will never meet anyone else. Then guess what? You're right!

On the other hand, you need to begin to realize that even though
your relationship is over; doesn't mean that your life is over. This
particular chapter in your life may be gone, but now you can begin
to tell a story with new characters, a new beginning and with someone
who actually wants to be in the story.

Sometimes things just don't work out the way we'd like. As much as
we don't want to believe it or accept it; until you start to process
this reality; you will continue to live in the past. Thinking about what
was and what could've been is a waste of time. Seriously,
what good does it do you? What's the point?

Close the door on that chapter in your life and you give yourself
the opportunity to meet someone new. The more open you are to
it, the more likely you will attract it into your life. So, when you are
sitting there thinking that you will never meet anyone else, just
remember, we create our experiences by what we continually tell
ourselves.

Change your thinking and you'll change your life!

Thinking that you will never meet anyone again is exactly what you
will experience. The likelihood of you living on this earth for the rest
of your life and believing that you will never meet anyone again is;
well, ludicrous. You just never know, when you least expect it;
there they are.

But, you have to be open to it and in order to do that; you have to
change your perspective and change what you tell yourself about the situation.

Face the facts. Begin to put it behind you and you will be closer to getting
what you want from life. Wanting something that isn't working or hurts you
just doesn't make sense. Who really wants to hold onto pain?

Choose to believe in your future again and simply know that you have
the power to control what you tell yourself about anything. You can
actually change your life by choosing what you think about.

Start to focus on what you want; not on what you don't want; and
before you know it; you'll meet someone new.

About Author

Read more about it at: http://www.whystay.com

Susan Russo is the President of Pinnacle Thought Inc. Publisher for books and resources which provide inspiration, self-empowerment and the tools and strategies to help move you toward personal success and fulfillment. She is editor of "You've Got Power" Ezine. Author of "There Is Life After What's-His-Name” and “The 7 Keys To Unlock The Power Within You” found at: http://www.susanrusso.com
Copyright 2006 Pinnacle Thought Inc.

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