How To Date Beautiful Women
From: Dating
class
By David D.
Secrets Of Dating BEAUTIFUL Women
BEAUTIFUL WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT ...
Or are they?
I get a lot of emails from guys who ask me what they should
do, because they've met an UNUSUALLY attractive woman. It
seems that most men intuitively guess that they need to do
something SPECIAL with a REALLY hot woman...something different
than they'd usually do.
If you are going to date BEAUTIFUL women, there are a few
things that you should keep in mind.
First of all, they are still WOMEN.
So the concepts and techniques that you've learned from me
will still apply.
But there are a few things that you will want to remember
when you're dealing with the UNUSUALLY attractive women.
1) She's likely to be or have been a model, an actress, or
a dancer (topless or otherwise).
When a woman goes through the experience of these professions,
certain things occur like clockwork.
First of all, she's quickly realizes that these industries
are all filled with sleazy, opportunistic men who are REALLY
in it for the sex.
This provides a unique sort of education for a woman, as
she gets to practice "playing against" some of the
best "players" out there.
These men have often been in the industry for many years,
and have learned and created specific techniques for manipulating
women... and getting sex from them.
After just a few months or a year in the business, most women
come out the other side with a different perspective on men.
And they come out SMARTER. They know how to detect a man
who is trying to tell stories just to get sex.
One of these women also learns how to make a man feel INSTANTLY
uncomfortable if she doesn't want to talk to him. It's a natural,
normal defense mechanism, and beautiful women are usually
very good at it.
If she has been a topless dancer, then you can bet on a couple
of things... One, she's not going to tell you up front about
it. Two, she's going to have some issues when it comes to
connecting with other human beings on a "real" level.
Dancers have to learn how to ACT like real people, while disconnecting
their actual true selves from the interactions. It's usually
not a good thing.
2) Beautiful women have more choices, but this often means
that they're also bored.
Most guys assume that a really beautiful woman is only interested
in tall, rich, handsome men.
Well, these things certainly don't hurt.
But guess what?
Just like anything else, the novelty wears off for beautiful
women.
Sure, it's nice to be 19 years old and riding around in a
Mercedes, going to dinner at nice places, etc.
But beautiful women are still people, and people get bored
with things quickly.
It doesn't take long after you have everything you want...
before you start wanting things just because you CAN'T HAVE
THEM.
More on this in just a moment.
3) Beautiful women are used to being treated special because
of their physical beauty, and not appreciated for their minds
or talents.
Beauty creates distance.
The more beautiful a woman is (or makes herself with makeup,
clothing, hairstyles, and other "enhancements")
the more difficult it becomes for other humans to interact
with her and communicate with her in a "normal"
way.
When you start talking to a woman who has obviously spent
many hours preparing herself, putting on makeup, choosing
just the right outfit, doing her hair, and MOST IMPORTANTLY
practicing that certain "attitude" that creates
the air of untouchable beauty, YOU CAN FEEL IT.
Something is very different.
She knows it and you know it.
And she WANTS you to know it...
Beauty gives women power. It gives women power because it
causes men to GIVE AWAY their power.
...so let's talk about what these things mean... and what
to do about them...
How do you communicate to a model, actress or dancer that
you're comfortable with them, and not intimidated by their
job or beauty?
Right! Make fun of them!
If a woman says "I'm a model", say "Oh, like
a parts model or something? What, do you have sexy toes?"
If she says "I'm an actress", say "Nice, so
what you're telling me is that you're a waitress, but you
do some extra work on the side?"
If she's a topless dancer, say "How did you get this
job? What, did you have to pay someone off?"
Joking around, busting on them, and teasing INSTANTLY communicates
that you're NOT going to give them any special treatment for
their "beauty job", and that, if anything, you see
their job as an "average" thing to be doing.
Works like magic.
To address the issue of beautiful women having more opportunities
to live "the good life" and be spoiled by men who
have money, etc...
As I said, everything in life gets boring if you get too
much of it.
Sooner or later, every guy in a suit and tie with a Mercedes
starts to blend into the next. And all the food starts to
taste the same at nice restaurants (beautiful women never
order anything off the menu without changing SOMETHING anyway).
So what does a woman who has it all WANT?
She wants to be CHALLENGED.
Here's a GREAT mindset to take with a woman who seems to
be a little too used to "the good life"...
Just say "You know what? You're a spoiled BRAT."
That should get her attention.
Then follow up with "It's too bad you're not more of
a normal, nice girl..."
The protests should be starting by this point...
"But I AM a nice girl..."
"Suuuure you are. Me too."
Are you with me?
The message is "Just because you're spoiled and snotty,
don't think you're going to get special treatment from me.
In fact, it's a problem."
This creates a HUGE challenge (which attractive women love),
and sets you apart from all the other "boring" guys
she's been out with lately.
Will some women stick their noses up in the air and laugh
at you? Sure, it will happen once in awhile. Good. It's better
sooner than later... and I mean that.
And finally, to deal with the fact that Beauty creates distance,
you must be strong... you must remember that her beauty is
a freak accident of nature (combined with the magic of hair
and beauty products).
Best way to proceed? Don't mention or acknowledge her looks
at all. Totally avoid the topic, and if she brings it up,
just make fun of her.
This one idea alone, or ignoring her beauty and treating
her like just another friend who you're comfortable with will
have a MAJOR effect.
Sometimes women will get so shaken by this that they'll start
acting NERVOUS. They'll wonder if they have eyeliner running
down their face, or if something else is wrong.
Here's the deal: Women can tell INSTANTLY if you're affected
by their beauty. If you are, they know that they're in control.
Most beautiful women wind up CRAVING attention.
They become so used to getting massive amounts of special
attention that they HAVE to have it. It becomes part of life.
And when they meet a man that is interesting, charming, funny
(AND COCKY!), they take note.
Is this everything? No, but it's a damn good start.
Oh, one more IMPORTANT thing.
I'd like you to think for a moment about what it's like when
you see a REALLY beautiful woman walk by.
I'm talking about the kind of woman that you only see every
few MONTHS or so... maybe once a year.
Think about how you stop, look again, keep looking...
And how it makes you feel inside.
Guess what?
To that unusually beautiful woman, most men seem the same.
To her, men all blur together into a big mass of compliments,
offers for dates, and attention.
But there is a type of guy that REALLY makes her stop, do
a double take, and pay attention.
There is a type of guy that STANDS OUT... the kind of guy
that comes along maybe every few months... or maybe only once
a year.
The question I have for you is...
WILL YOU BE THAT GUY?
Or are you going to just be another one of the dozens and
hundreds and thousands of guys that just stand and stare...
or give away their power in hopes that this goddess will see
fit to bless you with even a pinch of her attention?
If you want to know all the steps, top to bottom and front
to back for how to be this kind of guy, then I have a hint
for you...
My eBook "Double Your Dating", which can you can
download and be reading in just a few minutes...
DOUBLE YOUR DATING
Most of my friends who date beautiful women aren't rich, handsome,
and famous. Most of them are regular guys who just happen
to know something that most guys don't.
I think it's worth it to learn what they know.
Do you?
David D.
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