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Top 10 Ways to Get That Cute Girl to Date You
From: Dating-me.blogspot
By Jamie Broch Stevens
Some things never change. The night always falls, the grass
always grows (and needs to be mown), we all get old, we all
spend money. And if you're a male, you always wonder "what's
the best way to get that cute girl to go out with me."
Believe it or not, the real answers are simpler than you'd
ever believe. I am not one to waste time with useless words,
so we'll get to the point. This list is compiled in descending
order of importance, meaning that number 10 is much less likely
to work for you than number 1. So here we go.
And, in advance: Your welcome.
Pick On Her Mercilessly - The only reason this is here is
because I had a good friend who was an absolute master at
this. This is a highly unusual tactic, but since I've seen
it work, how can I deny there is something to it? It goes
like this: There is a girl in your circle of friends that
you are around a lot. At every opportunity, you try to embarrass,
harass, throw crap at, spill things on "accidentally"...
stuff like that. Then when you and she have some alone time
(maybe you call her later), you apologize and tell her you're
not such a bad guy, etc. etc...This is definitely not a tactic
for amateurs, and will backfire horribly if you don't know
what you're doing.
Have One of Your Friends Talk to Her - This is the oldest
trick in the book. You're too scared or nervous to do anything,
so you make Mike go over and do it for you. This also may
be the poorest trick in the book, really. Most women won't
take kindly to second hand knowledge of your crush on them.
They look at it as you talking about them behind their back
and consider it cowardly. That said, it does sometimes work,
but there's a reason it sits at number 9.
Talk to One of Her Friends - Well this is a bit better, but
not a lot. If you can start a conversation with one of her
good friends, say Sarah, then Sarah might put in the good
word for you if you drop the right hints. But this can backfire
too. What if Sarah doesn't like you, but just tolerates you
to save your feelings? She's not going to do jack squat to
help, that's what. I've also seen jealousy spring up around
issues like this, so use with extreme caution!
Take One of Your Friends Ex's - Yep, this is kind of playing
dirty, and you may lose a friend over it; but that's where
that ancient saying "All's fair in love and war"
comes in. Show a friends ex-girl you're a better than him
anyway, and this can sometimes be an easy score. There are
many pitfalls here, but this can work if you're willing to
be a bit of a scumbag. Guess it really depends on how much
you like your friend, and how much you like the girl. Note
that this can also work with a friend's current girlfriend,
just realize the negatives accompanying a move like this are
multiplied by ten.
 The
Secret Admirer Note/ Email - Okay, now were getting somewhere.
This is a good tactic, and is devastating when used in combination
with number 3. Girls love having secret admirers. This is
more difficult to do with email, especially if you know the
girl. You'll probably have to make up an email address just
for this. The biggest pitfall here is her being let down when
she actually finds out who you are. But that can also be a
boon, if she was into you anyway.
 The
Signed Note/ Email - This is somewhat interchangeable with
number 6, and it is debatable which the better tactic is.
Some girls love the secrecy, while some love the honesty.
As long as you're sincere, either tactic is good. The reason
they ended up in this order is that I really believe girls
value honesty over mystery. Just by this much though.
The "Cold Call" - Just how it sounds, calling her
up out of the blue. You can make up some lame excuse, like
"What was that homework assignment in Mr. Baxter's class
today...?" or "Hey Julie, Ray just called and he
wanted me to make sure you remembered that meeting coming
up Friday..." if you know her a little already. Odds
are she'll see right through it though. Women are very intuitive
about these things. The better tactic would just be honesty.
What you lose by using this is being able to read and interpret
body language, and you give her much easier outs. "Sorry,
Steve, I'm busy. I have to get going I was just on my way
out the door when you called." "But, you have a
cell phone!" Click! It can actually work well though,
most girls like to talk on the phone, and so as long as she
doesn't think you're dirt, you may do well with this.
Flowers/ Candy - Between the two, go for flowers every time.
Unless you know she's allergic to pollen, or you know she
absolutely loves chocolates, or maybe it's Valentine's Day.
I might even suggest a combination, but candy alone can send
mixed signals. Girls can be sensitive to things you wouldn't
even think about. "Does he think I'm fat? Does he want
me to get fat? I can't eat all this candy, he's just tempting
me. What a jerk!" No, that's not the response you want.
As noted in number 5, the 5/3 combo can be extremely powerful
with a well written note. In some circumstances the 5/3 combo
can be even more effective than number 1. This would be rare,
but I can certainly see it happening on occasion. She might
enjoy that there is no immediate pressure, and everyone loves
gifts, especially when unexpected.
 Become
Her Friend - Okay this isn't rocket science here. If you and
she can start up a casual friendship, it's easy to drop into
something like "Mission Impossible 32 opens this weekend.
If you're not busy, I could get us tickets." If she's
single, and into you at all, your in. Even if she has no interest
in Mission Impossible 32, she'll want to see where this leads,
and if she could consider you boyfriend material.
Get Over It And Just Walk Up To Her - And start talking, of
course. There you go. The number one way for you to get that
cute girl to date you is just as simple as it sounds. You
might even be saying "bulls**t" but check this out,
in her eyes you've just proven yourself as someone who is
:
a) Not shy.
b) Into her.
c) Unafraid of rejection.
d) Bold enough to go get what you want.
These are all attributes women find irresistible in a man.
With many women it's less about looks, and more about who
you are.
If you still don't believe me, spend some money, live a little
longer, mow the grass, and watch a few more sunsets. Then
get back to me.
P.S. - If you still need more help, I recommend this book
or this website.
Good Luck!
About the Author - Born and raised in South Beach, California,
Jamie's interests are in relationships. Social or romantic,
Jamie's your go to guy.
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